We have walked in the trenches with many Birth Mothers and Adoptive Families. We’ve seen the tears, the challenges, and the joys.

 

We aim to keep showing up after placement BIG and WELL and to do this thoughtfully we have divided our growth into three tiers. This is just the beginning of many great programs for the Adoption Triad!

Tier 1 Birth Mothers

NEVER ALONE, NEVER FORGOTTEN, and ALWAYS LOVED

We offer:

  • Post Placement Birth Mother Advocates
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  • Our advocates walk alongside each birth mom so that they know they are loved! They are there to be a listening ear, to help her take steps of healing and reaching their goals click here to get connected with an advocate.

 

  • Local and virtual support groups

 

 

  • Mediation Services. Abiding Love Charities has Adoption Professionals who are Certified Mediators.  Unlike general Mediators, our Mediation Team are Adoption Professionals who are well versed in the nuances of Adoption.  Our Mediators are able to mediate the unique conflicts and concerns Birth Parents and Adoptive Parents often encounter so that all parties can resolve conflict and strengthen their relationships.

Tier 2 Adoptive Families

We believe in One Big Family through Open Adoption– and we can help you create a strong foundation together!  You educated yourself about Open Adoption.  Hoped for an Open Adoption.  And now you are here in an Open Adoption, but what now?  Abiding Love Charities wants to help you navigate your Open Adoption so that you have the strongest and healthiest relationship possible with your child’s Birth Parent(s).  This in turn will provide the healthiest space for your child, the adoptee, to flourish.

We offer:
  • Post Placement Coaching calls with Adoptive Parents to help walk through the ups and downs of Open Adoption. 
  • Mediation Services.  Abiding Love Charities has Adoption Professionals who are Certified Mediators.  Unlike general Mediators, our Mediation Team are Adoption Professionals who are well versed in the nuances of Adoption.  Our Mediators are able to mediate the unique conflicts and concerns Birth Parents and Adoptive Parents often encounter so that all parties can resolve conflict and strengthen their relationships.
  • Support groups ~ Coming Soon 

    “Jill and Leah have been so helpful with giving us perspective on what it means to build a healthy relationship with the birth parents of this little person who we all love so much. There are so many perspectives to consider, but ultimately it is about having an open heart. Their questions and nudging have guided us towards having that more with each interaction. We are so grateful to not be alone in navigating this unique and important relationship.” -Rachel, adoptive mom

    Tier 3 Adoptees

    We see you. We hear you.

    We know this is another large gap in the Adoption Community. We are working on creating care for you, too! Let us know your ideas.