Navigating Competition Between Adoptive and Birth Parents

Navigating Competition Between Adoptive and Birth Parents

Navigating Competition Between Adoptive and Birth Parents Competition refers to the rivalry between individuals or groups striving for the same goal, such as winning a contest, achieving a high level of performance, or gaining recognition or rewards. It involves the...
Savior Complex

Savior Complex

​A couple of years ago, I was talking on the phone with my good friend, Rahel. During this particular conversation, I was telling her why another one of my friends was mad at me. In my mind, I had a bulletproof thesis. I explained to Rahel all of the reasons that...
How to Break the Saviorism Mentality in Adoption

How to Break the Saviorism Mentality in Adoption

It’s important to recognize and acknowledge that adoption is about providing a loving and stable home for a child, not about “saving” them. As adoptive parents, there are several steps we can take to break the “saviorism mentality” and better support our...
Myths and Expectations of Adoption

Myths and Expectations of Adoption

I grew up watching and hearing how the world perceived adoption. Movies would start with a little girl or boy sitting in an orphanage abandoned by their parents, waiting anxiously for their new parents to arrive. The child would make their bed perfectly and use the...