We understand that each adoption story is unique, and that support needs can change over time.
At Abiding Love Charities, we provide ongoing, faith-based support for women who have placed a child for adoption, no matter how long ago placement occurred or how adoption became part of your story. Our programs are here to offer connection and understanding as you navigate life after placement.
We offer:
- Faith-based support groups: Find a Seen location
- Birth Mother Mentorship
- Education and resources about life after placement
- Guidance and advocacy as needs arise
- Grant opportunities that support personal growth and forward movement (such as education, career, or wellness goals)
- Referrals to counseling and additional community services
In addition to the services we offer, there are many organizations across the country dedicated to supporting birth parents in different ways. We have gathered some resources below to help you find the kind of support that feels right for you, whether you are seeking emotional support, mental health services, community, or practical assistance.
You are not expected to navigate this season alone. Help and support are available, and you deserve access to them when you’re ready.
Birth Parent Support Resources
National Support & Community
BraveLove
Website: https://www.bravelove.org
BraveLove provides encouragement, education, and community for birth parents through storytelling, advocacy, and connection with others who have experienced adoption.
AdoptMatch – Birth Parent Resource Database
Website: https://www.adoptmatch.com/birth-parent-resources-database
AdoptMatch offers a comprehensive directory of resources for birth parents, including support services, counseling, and practical assistance across the United States.
On Your Feet Foundation
Website: https://onyourfeetfoundation.org
On Your Feet Foundation offers ongoing post-placement support for birth parents, including virtual support groups, retreats, financial assistance grants, and educational resources.
Concerned United Birthparents (CUB)
Website: https://www.cubirthparents.org
Concerned United Birthparents provides peer-led support groups and resources focused on healing, grief, and long-term emotional support after placement.
Bellis
Website: https://www.bellisadoption.org
Bellis provides education, peer support, and resources for birth parents after placement. Their programs focus on long-term healing, personal growth, and building healthy relationships within the adoption journey. Bellis offers virtual support groups, educational workshops, and community connection opportunities designed specifically for women who have placed a child for adoption.
Spence-Chapin Services to Families and Children
Website: https://spence-chapin.org/birth-parent-support
Spence-Chapin offers free virtual birth parent support groups for individuals who have made an adoption plan, whether through their agency or elsewhere. These groups provide a supportive space to discuss grief, relationships, and life after placement with others who share similar experiences.
Adoption Network Cleveland
Website: https://adoptionnetwork.org
Adoption Network Cleveland hosts regular virtual support groups and educational programs for birth parents, providing a safe space for discussion, healing, and connection with others who have experienced adoption.
Mental Health and Emotional Support
Postpartum Support International (PSI)
Website: https://www.postpartum.net
Postpartum Support International provides mental health support for women experiencing postpartum depression, anxiety, trauma, or emotional distress after pregnancy or placement. They offer support groups, referrals to trained professionals, and a helpline.
The National Parent Helpline
Website: https://www.nationalparenthelpline.org
The National Parent Helpline offers emotional support and resource referrals for parents and caregivers who may be feeling overwhelmed, stressed, or in need of someone to talk to.
National Maternal Mental Health Hotline
Call or text: 1-833-TLC-MAMA (1-833-852-6262)
Website: https://mchb.hrsa.gov/national-maternal-mental-health-hotline
The National Maternal Mental Health Hotline provides free, confidential support 24/7 for pregnant and postpartum women experiencing emotional or mental health challenges. Services are available in English and Spanish, with interpreter support for additional languages.
988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
Website: https://988lifeline.org
Call or text: 988
The 988 Lifeline provides free, confidential support 24/7 for individuals experiencing emotional distress, crisis, or thoughts of self-harm.
SAMHSA National Helpline
Website: https://www.samhsa.gov/find-help/national-helpline
Call: 1-800-662-HELP (1-800-662-4357)
The Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) National Helpline provides free, confidential treatment referral and information services for individuals and families facing mental health or substance use challenges. Support is available 24/7 in English and Spanish.
Practical Support and Advocacy
National Association of Adoptees and Parents (NAAP)
Website: https://naapunited.org
The National Association of Adoptees and Parents (NAAP) is a nonprofit organization that supports members of the adoption community through education, connection, and community events. They offer webinars, conferences, and virtual gatherings that provide opportunities for individuals impacted by adoption, including birth parents, to connect with others, share experiences, and access adoption-informed resources.
PACT, An Adoption Alliance
Website: https://www.pactadopt.org
PACT offers adoption-informed counseling, education, and support services for families and individuals connected to adoption.
Vetted Facebook Groups
Facebook groups can be a helpful place to find connection and support from others who understand. At the same time, online spaces can vary in tone and perspective. We encourage you to take what is helpful, set boundaries, and prioritize your well-being in any online community.
Birth Mothers Support Group (Private Facebook Group)
Birth Moms Today (Private Facebook Group)
Caring for Birthmothers Support Group (Private Facebook Group)
The resources on this page are there to help connect you with a variety of support options, including emotional support, mental health services, community connection, and practical assistance. Our hope is that you will be able to explore these options and find the kind of support that feels right for you and best fits your needs.
Please note that the organizations and resources listed here are independent of Abiding Love Charities and are not monitored or managed by our team. While we aim to share trusted and reputable resources, each organization operates under its own policies and approach.