Adoption Finalization as a Birth Mother

Adoption Finalization as a Birth Mother

Final: coming at the end; being the last in a series, process, or progress. When I first became a Birth Mother, there was so much I didn’t know about adoption. I knew I was going to get updates and a few visits, but didn’t know how much work would be required of me...
Managing Adoptive Family Dynamics

Managing Adoptive Family Dynamics

As adoptive parents, we are the first line of defense for our child’s story. Throughout their childhood, they will hear many questions regarding their past. A good portion of those could be wildly invasive, or inappropriate. For some reason, our society hears the word...
How to Navigate Family Dynamics in Adoption

How to Navigate Family Dynamics in Adoption

For birth mothers, we are all too familiar with feelings of shame and guilt. We might question whether we’ve made the right decision and possibly even regret our choice. As mothers, we are hard enough on ourselves when it comes to the life of our children and outside...
Should You Consider Adopting a Child from Another Culture?

Should You Consider Adopting a Child from Another Culture?

I am tasked during Black History month to talk about race issues in transracial adoption from the perspective of an adoptive parent. I could talk about the importance of racial mirrors or acknowledging Historical figures. I could even talk about the importance of toys...