Finding Mary: My Journey of Reunion and Redemption

Finding Mary: My Journey of Reunion and Redemption

November is National Adoption Awareness Month, and this year it feels especially meaningful to me. I’ve always known I was adopted — it was never something my parents hid or avoided talking about. I grew up in a loving home where adoption was simply a part of my...
Love in Reunion

Love in Reunion

From the time they place their child for adoption, many birth parents dream of reunion. The idea of reestablishing contact or developing a relationship with their child independent of the adoptive parents, whether it takes place years or decades later, can evoke a...
When Love Pivots: Standing in the Grey

When Love Pivots: Standing in the Grey

Who doesn’t love a good Friends reference? I can still hear Ross yelling “PIVOT!” at Rachel as they struggle to wedge the oversized couch up the narrow staircase. To nobody’s surprise except Ross’s, the couch doesn’t fit. The scene ends with Ross dragging a torn,...
The One Where Love Pivots

The One Where Love Pivots

We know the root of adoption is love: a sacrificial and unconditional love uniquely demonstrated by both birth parents and adoptive parents, each with their own circumstances leading them to adoption as their chosen parenting plan. Two distinct roles of love displayed...